by Gary | Feb 4, 2015 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Gratitude, Intention
I have a tendency to reflect on my past. As a regular reader of these posts can attest, I can spend time being critical of my past transgressions. However, I am also a very experienced nostalgia practitioner. As Cathy and I prepare for an upcoming vacation in San...
by Gary | Feb 2, 2015 | Clarity Words
Coaching is the light side of telling. Coaching creates a field of curiosity with an energy of openness. It’s asking questions to elicit discovery and learning. Telling lacks curiosity, assumes that you always know best and results in stifled energy and lack of...
by Gary | Feb 2, 2015 | Clarity Words
Modeling is the light side of evaluation. Modeling opens opportunities to communication and experimental learning. This direct experience creates a perspective from the inside out. The active experience of modeling gives the opportunity to acknowledge what worked and...
by Gary | Feb 2, 2015 | Clarity Words
Confidence is the light side of sabotage. Confidence is the result of clear, honest communication, and is constructive. Sabotage undermines the energy and creates destruction. Questions to ask: Where am I confident? What lights-n thought or activity supports my...
by Gary | Jan 26, 2015 | Clarity Words
Honesty, the light side of manipulation. Honest is being in integrity or integrated, which creates an energetic that is able to be sensed by yourself and others. You are walking your talk, and that stability builds trust. Manipulation feels “squirrely” as...
