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I’m Late, I’m Late and it is All Your Fault
I don’t know if it’s maturity or training or letting go, but I no longer get uptight waiting for my wife to get ready to leave the house. As I was waiting for Cathy the other evening – calmly – I remembered that this wasn’t always so. In the past, when other people...
Glass Breaks and Immaturity is Ageless
It is early morning. I haven’t had my coffee so I’m half awake and a little grumpy. The dogs are awaiting a treat and the lid on the antique glass jar is stuck. So, I decided a little tap on the counter would help. Actually, it was more of a frustrated, pounding on...
Negativity Can Make You Dumb!
As if aging isn’t enough of a worry, now I have to quit complaining or worry about impacting Cathy’s intelligence. A recent online article mentioned that research shows that exposure to too much complaining can actually make you dumb....
Lighten Up; It’s Just Pressure
I glanced at my to-do list this morning and realized that I was so far behind that for many of the items on the list, the ink was faded from age. Then I felt pressure – the pressure of not doing enough, not being smart enough, not working hard enough, not being more...
Trust Drives Out All Fear
At a recent gathering of Clarity alums, Marcia Donziger, Founder of MyLifeLine.org talked about the power of Trust. Trust drives out all fear is what Marcia kept repeating to herself as she was hanging 32 floors above downtown Denver. (You may want to enlarge this...
Are You Caught in Your Own Traffic Jam?
John is driving his car through a tunnel during rush hour. As he’s half way in, his engine begins to stutter and cough. His car finally jerks to a stop and traffic begins to build up behind him. He keeps trying to re-start the car, feeling anxious knowing that cars...
The Dog Says No!
On my daily walk I’ve noticed a few of my neighbors have put out signs to encourage people to pick up after their dogs. As a responsible dog owner and being married to a master landscape artist, I am fully aware of the frustration and disgust when I have to pick up...
It’s All in Your Perspective
You know that changing your thoughts can change your reality. I want to advance the awareness that changing your perspective can add joy to that reality. I was reminded of this perspective recently. A cool little consulting assignment I’ve had for some time changed...
Listening to a Random Thought
Living in the present, expressing gratitude for the future, while honoring perspective from the past. This phrase literally popped into my mind recently and my first reaction was – What does it mean? Why did it suddenly appear so clearly into my brain? Cathy says...
Grumpy is as Grumpy Does
Last week I had to renew my driver’s license. Since I hadn’t been paying attention, it was past the expiration date, so I needed to visit the local DMV. While waiting for my name to be called, I looked at my photo on the old license. I’ve had to live with this...
