by Gary | Nov 7, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
On my daily walk, I’ve noticed a few of my neighbors have put out signs to encourage people to pick up after their dogs. As a responsible dog owner, married to a master landscape artist, I am fully aware of the frustration and disgust I feel when I have to pick up...
by Gary | Oct 24, 2025 | Above the Line, Align Your Actions, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
Two experiences in the past year have been great reminders of how I can allow things I have no control over to impact my thoughts, health, and energy. We have all experienced large company customer service (a true misnomer). For me, it was two separate occasions with...
by Gary | Oct 3, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
I love reading the comics every day, not only for the humor but also for a reminder of life lessons. Since I limit my immature, angry outbursts to inanimate objects (and somewhat related, customer service people), reading this was another reminder that I create as I...
by Gary | Sep 19, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
What if I throw a big party and no one comes? What if I start this business and I go broke? What if I go to the audition and they don’t want me? These are examples of what Clarity calls “future-tripping”, creating a worst-case scenario about the future rather than a...
by Gary | Sep 5, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
Gary and I have been noticing how easy it is to get depressed, angry, and fearful for the safety of our country and our precious democracy. I know how important it is to stay above the line, hold my personal field, and keep myself resilient and positive regardless of...
by Gary | Aug 22, 2025 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Effective Communication, Intention
I tend to reflect on my past. As a regular reader of these posts can attest, I can spend time being critical of my past transgressions. However, I am also a very experienced nostalgia practitioner. As Cathy and I prepared for an upcoming vacation in San Diego, I...
