by Gary | Mar 21, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity Words, Get Clarity, Intention, Kindness
Kindness is Good Politics As I was thinking about today’s topic, two thoughts came up at the same time: kindness and politics. While this seems like an oxymoron, they should always be connected. The practice of politics is not limited to the governmental activities we...
by Gary | Mar 7, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Clarity Words, Get Clarity, Intention
Be Careful. Your Thoughts Travel. A few years ago, Cathy and I went to my hometown in Nebraska for my 50th high school reunion. Our experience provided anecdotal evidence that our thought energy is powerful and can travel long distances. We don’t need a phone or a...
by Gary | Feb 21, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Clarity Words, Get Clarity, Intention
Are You a High Noticer? Cathy and I recently attended a storytelling gathering. The purpose was to share personal stories that impacted the spiritual direction of our lives. Most of the stories shared that evening were not Red Sea parting,...
by Gary | Feb 17, 2025 | Align Your Actions, Blog, Clarity Words, Get Clarity, Intention
Are You a High Noticer? Being a High Noticer means seeing the little things that others miss—the subtle shifts, the unspoken words, the beauty in the ordinary. It’s about paying attention, being present, and genuinely noticing the world around...
by Gary | May 9, 2016 | Above the Line, Clarity in Life, Clarity Words, Intention
Twelve years ago I participated in a Get Clarity™ retreat as a client. Didn’t know it at the time but I was saving my marriage to Cathy before I even asked her. Cathy and I fell in love very quickly and knew we wanted to be together. Then Cathy said, “I have a rule....
by Gary | Mar 15, 2016 | Clarity Words
Ruthlessness is the light side of self pity. Seemingly an oxymoron, the use of this word means that you will ruthlessly protect your aliveness. It is like “putting your own oxygen mask on first” in order to stay alive so that you can be in service to yourself and...
