Clarity Attention Guide for Powerful Partnering: Support vs. Suspicion
The primary guiding question is: What is the energy I contribute to partnership?
The Transition Line on this guide has Anger as the transitional experience. Anger is a powerful catalyst for constructive change as long as it is never used destructively to hurt others. When you find yourself angry, it is a clue that you are at a choice point and that it is time to take your attention above the line.
Support is the light side of Suspicion. Support is the grounding action upon which loving partnerships stand. The mutual support connection is foundational for expansion into powerful, productive relationships—the “thrival paradigm.” Suspicion focuses on “what is wrong here,” and depletes and drains the partnership energy. It is a remnant of the old “survival paradigm.”
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