by Gary | Feb 2, 2015 | Clarity Words
Coaching is the light side of telling. Coaching creates a field of curiosity with an energy of openness. It’s asking questions to elicit discovery and learning. Telling lacks curiosity, assumes that you always know best and results in stifled energy and lack of...
by Gary | Feb 2, 2015 | Clarity Words
Modeling is the light side of evaluation. Modeling opens opportunities to communication and experimental learning. This direct experience creates a perspective from the inside out. The active experience of modeling gives the opportunity to acknowledge what worked and...
by Gary | Jan 26, 2015 | Clarity Words
Honesty, the light side of manipulation. Honest is being in integrity or integrated, which creates an energetic that is able to be sensed by yourself and others. You are walking your talk, and that stability builds trust. Manipulation feels “squirrely” as...
by Gary | Jan 10, 2015 | Above the Line, Align Your Actions, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Gratitude, Intention
A few days ago someone asked me what my 2015 resolution was. I flippantly responded with “Be Easy on Hawk.” Out of the mouth of the flippant … As I thought about my reply, I realized it is the perfect resolution for the beginning of my seventh decade here on what...
by Gary | Nov 23, 2014 | Clarity in Life, Gratitude
This is an update/repeat of last year’s blog. I’m very grateful that so much of it remains true this year. Several years ago, Cathy and I were conducting a workshop with another trainer, Allison. Whenever we work with someone else, we always ground our energy with a...
