Self Esteem versus Martyrdom

Self esteem is the light side of martyrdom.  High self esteem affects you positively. Your ability to hold your energy at a consistent level, staying lights-on in the face of challenges, contributes to outcomes that are aligned to your values. Martyrdom is an...

Curiosity vs. Resistance

Curiosity is the light side of resistance. Curiosity as an energetic force explores the field of all possibilities, asks questions, and seeks answers which empower and direct choices.  It is a key factor contributing to creativity and flow. Resistance slows the flow...

Gratitude versus Criticism

Gratitude is the light side of criticism.  Gratitude is one of the healthiest ways to view the world, using the ability to find a gift, a lesson or a message in every circumstance, and expressing that gratitude. The behavior of gratitude manifests by asking the...

Ruthlessness versus Self Pity

Ruthlessness is the light side of self pity. Seemingly an oxymoron, the use of this word means that you will ruthlessly protect your aliveness. It is like “putting your own oxygen mask on first” in order to stay alive so that you can be in service to yourself and...

Celebration versus Resentment

Celebration is the light side of resentment. Celebration is the ability to find the positive, no matter how small, in everything and reflecting that back into the world, like a mirror. It is attractive energy. Resentment is behavior that results from holding in...