by Gary | Nov 3, 2015 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Life, Intention, Sacred Selfishness
Many years ago, a former girlfriend requested, “Teach me to be kind. I don’t know how.” “I can’t teach you to be kind,” I replied, “You need to learn that on your own.” What I meant, at the time, was that I really wasn’t willing to be her teacher, because I didn’t...
by Gary | Oct 28, 2015 | Above the Line, Change Your Thoughts, Clarity in Business, Clarity in Life
I began pondering this question recently after listening to a very accomplished, smart, experienced business owner express her anxieties about her business and her abilities as a leader. She worries that she hasn’t done enough; her business is not growing fast enough;...
by Gary | Oct 22, 2015 | Above the Line, Clarity in Life, Gratitude, Intention
Several weeks ago, Cathy and I attended a memorial service for our daughter-in-law’s 95-year-old grandfather, Warren Mugler. We listened as his grandchildren and others honored him. They described a man who was dedicated to his family and disciplined in his daily...
by Gary | Oct 20, 2015 | Clarity Words
Self esteem is the light side of martyrdom. High self esteem affects you positively. Your ability to hold your energy at a consistent level, staying lights-on in the face of challenges, contributes to outcomes that are aligned to your values. Martyrdom is an...
by Gary | Oct 13, 2015 | Clarity Words
Curiosity is the light side of resistance. Curiosity as an energetic force explores the field of all possibilities, asks questions, and seeks answers which empower and direct choices. It is a key factor contributing to creativity and flow. Resistance slows the flow...
